Waiting for a good one!!

I am disappointed, again! I am a die-hard Ranbir fan. Undoubtedly, Ranbir Kapoor’s charm is superlative, but why does he have to choose projects which fail to click with me. I saw him first in Bachna Ae Haseeno, and that was a first class performance by a very cute boy. I saw that movie twice, which is a big deal cause I never did that before for any other movie (now that I think, except for Jab We Met). Perhaps, BAH clicked, not only because of his captivating good looks but also because of the concept. I could totally relate to the idea of going beyond the obvious to say sorry to someone you hurt.

And then I was eagerly waiting for RockStar, which turned out to be nothing more than music for soul. Of course I loved the music, but having said that, the only thing that added more to this film, for me, was his character’s presentation. Some people said they simply adored the movie, but not me. Even though Ranbir was in it. The concept of an ex-lover trying to disturb a girl’s married life is totally unjustified to me. Perhaps I needed more reason to goof up poor dying lady’s marriage. And to add to it, Nargis was too much to tolerate for 3 hours…sorry lady, but that’s the truth!


And now, I was expecting a lot from YJHD, but it’s nothing more than yet another disappointment. The direction is poor, the story has so less to it. The only USP being that people would love to see the two-ex patch up again. In fact, some dialogues really did add a meaning (read masala) to their broken-relationship. Though Kareena and Shahid failed to create fun out of Milenge Milenge , Deepika-Ranbir have done much better a job here.  Kalki is again looking terrible in Indian ethnic wear, gal please spare us of your horrible lehanga looks. You look anorexic and malnutrition-ed.

And although the director could make even the Melbourne audience whistle and clap on their kiss, neah, still not good enough for me!!

Ranbir, buck up Man!

You are worth it!! Stay blessed!!

We, the women, are the strangest & the most interesting creation of God. Sometimes I feel we have in us, each and every feeling, ever created and felt in the world. And the best part is, we are different, not only from any other species but from our own selves at two given points in time. We are powerful to run a billion-dollar firm, but we are delicate at heart enough to cry when a friend declares good news,  we are clever at one time and emotional fools at the other; we are quick to get angry and quicker to forgive; we dress as royal queens sometimes and other times, messy PJs look is all that we need; we are brave to deliver a baby, but a small roach on the bathroom floor can scare the bejesus out of us; we love like no one else can, we hate like no one else can even think of; we are happy and flying at times and at others, sad for no good reason whatsoever!

Mood swings are one essential part of being a woman! Let’s accept it, at times, for no good reason whatsoever, we show our worst to people whom we love the most and then we hate ourselves for it.It is as if, if we do not have any problems or stress creating bugs in sight, then we start looking for them. If we do find them, we are reasonably sad and if we don’t find them, we become sad that we do not have anything to be sad about. Yes that’s true! and its not our fault! Our model was designed that way!

So, the big question is, if there is a solution to this madness caused by searched sadness! Yes! There very well is. The key is to stay alert. Stay alert to these bugs that creep in to our mood and destroy our day. Why not just kick them in their ass and instead try out something immediately that makes us happy. Here are a few pointers, these work for me, hopefully you might find a one or two that lift you up too….check these out and don’t forget to add suggestions to this list. You might be helping a man coping with a swingy woman!!

Count your blessings – and do this every single day at a time of your convenience.You’ll be amazed by how many you came up with if you would really try. Believe me, it works wonders! And If you have religious faith, then do remember to thank your God for those, every single time.

Pamper Yourself – Once in a while pamper yourself. Take some time off, from every possible responsibility that you own and just do what you have to. Go out wonder in the rain, take pictures, write something, spare some time for your hobby, listen to your favorite music at a volume of your choice, visit a spa, get a beauty service, take a nap, try retail therapy; simply indulge yourself completely in what you like and not what you have to. Even an hour would do good!!

Make time for besties– Always find time to talk to friends that make you happy, however far they may be. Stay connected. More important than that, cut out the ones that make you sad. They do not deserve you and your time. A small chat with a positive friend can transport you to another world all together, a world full of joys and wonderful times spent together.

Cook your favorite meal = Bake a chocolate cake– Cooking will give you a sense of great achievement plus you will have a meal of your own choice to relish upon, cooked just right to your taste. and my my, who doesn’t love chocolate and its scientifically proven magic effects on our mood.

Share your happiness – You know what, you share one happy news to the world and the world will bounce back with many more. This is tried and tested. I just did this one today on my FB page. I am happy with many reasons and shared those with my friends. Before I knew, I could see more happy news brought to me by friends who remembered to tell me there share after reading my status and so began many happy conversations with many of my friends. Positive attracts positive, is the law of attraction in the universe and it really works. Additionally, you will be happy to see that so many of your friends are genuinely happy in your happiness and that would surely double it!

Most important, Love Yourself – Nobody can make you happier or sadder than you. Learn to cheer yourself up because you put yourself in a state of sadness first of all. You are the best person in the world and the one person who deserves most of your love is YOU, you are totally worth it!!

Stay Blessed!



Why they should launch F.R.I.E.N.D.S Season 11 in 2024

Am sure all the fellow fans of the world famous sitcom would agree that 1994 to 2004 was an era, and thanks to the 10 season edition DVDs, we still have the characters running in our homes even almost a decade later.We just can’t seem to get over them, I guess we all feel we didn’t have, what is called a ‘ Closure’.

I may have watched the whole series, like millions of others out there, for almost 17 zillion times but I still can’t help but shed tears on the last episode of the season 10. I want to know what happens next, how is the Bings new suburban home, do Rachel and Ross finally get married ceremoniously( am sure he would speak the right name this time though), how Phoebe and Mike get along and do they have kids or just a bunch of adopted mice, and what about Joey, he lives with the Bings in their new home as their third adopted child or does he finally meet someone too…..

Well, this show is the one with a huge impact, too real and too surreal, too dream like, that we just assume it to be true. I myself have sometimes sat there watching and analyzing which character do I fit in the most, but most of all I conclude that I have something from each of them, and I guess everyone in this world is a little bit of Ross, a little bit of Rachel, a little bit of Monica, a little bit of Chandler, a little bit of Joey and of course a  little bit of Phoebe. This show not only taught me about life but also how beautiful it can be, when you have some real friends in your life for whom you are nothing but a family to die for. When there’s real friendship, there are no limits to go beyond of.

So why should they choose to re launch in 2024, because that’s when after 20 reasonable years, we would see Ben, Phoebe’s Triplets, Emma, Erica & Jack put on their parent’s shoes and show us the legacy. This time they would be 7, just as in the alphabets in the title. And of course who wouldn’t love to watch frequent special appearances from the Geller’s, The Bing’s, The Hannigan’s & Of course THE Tribbiani. 20 years is a reasonable wait time for the next generation F.R.I.E.N.D.S , unlike Hindi TV Serials, wherein you watch a Friday’s daughter-in-law throw in some powder in her hair and turn into a mother-in-law in the Monday show, and you can’t help but feel silly to watch a few[read 5] generations played by the same age actors in the very episode.

So what say guys, Ben Geller[ n whatever Carol’s & Susan’s surnames were], Emma Geller Green, Frank Junior Junior, Leslie, Chandler (the girl), Erica Bing & Jack Bing, show up as the next gen FRIENDS – and the creators, David Crane & Marta Kauffman, can rightly say that for 20 years ‘ They were on a break’ and we would happily take them back again!

I am still wondering why on earth for this post did I choose a title such long & senseless

Well I guess that’s because I couldn’t come up with something more catchy, not that all my other posts have been with any perfect titles to them…..uh…anyways! What difference does that make anyway, I am sure the little number of people who read my posts, do not read it only if they like the caption, correct me if I am wrong though!

I am in a different state of mind today, and to be frank, am not very sure why I am typing what I am, in fact its not making much sense to me, but I am still not able to stop myself. Its not very me to be writing when I don’t have something specific in my mind, but somehow I don’t want this post to be of any purpose, I just want it to be straight, but not in a specific direction so to say.

Wait, I think I do have a reason here, perhaps am writing out of a promise. Thoughts had been rapidly feeling my tiny mind when I had laid in my bed last night, sometimes I feel my thoughts are too wicked, they only choose to come to me when am too lazy to get up to grab a paper or to boot the laptop, and then they arrest my sleep unless I cram all those thoughts up, promising them to publish them as soon as I wake up….But today, I am ditching them..I don’t a remember a thing!

That’s it I guess! Sorry thoughts!

Planning Vacations!!!!

Goods The Mornings Amigos[ o Yeah, m stll very not over with the lovely movie]

Very recently, a few of my friends have been contacting me to get info about travel to/vacationing at Malaysia/SingaPore/Thailand. Thanks to me being *free* all the time these days, I have been drafting new mails everytime[;)].

I had made this page almost a week ago but since then couldnt start writing somehow. So when questioned by my hubby last night “What exactly do u plan to put in ur blog??”, the one thing that came to ma mind was,  may be a travel guide, to start with[:)].and He loved the idea. Also, I am inspired by one of my frenz, who lives in the UK. She wrote about travelling tips to London in her exquisite blog, do check this out if you get a chance to visit the English land http://chintangupta.blogspot.com/search/label/London. Her Blog certainly is an inspiration to many I beleive, and in many terms.

Having had the chance to live in/visit some of the most beautiful vacation places in the world, I intend to write about them on this page. These include India, Cyprus,Malaysia, Singapore, Thailand, Egypt, Israel… and some that I plan to visit in the future.  Ofcourse please do not expect a Nat Geo Travel freak writing here[:D].[ Ok I love Nat geo].

Well ofcourse this isnt the only agenda of my “Press”, as I like to call this page. I plan to share some of my personal experiences too. Well, I havent lived for ages now, but still, I guess all of us have a great deal of lessons learnt, irrespective of our age.My Family, Friends, Teenage Crushes, Relations, Surviving in a college headed by my own dad, my love marraige, the industry I have worked in, being a Momma …have all taught me a lot….and when I look back during my “Me” times….I realise I really have had some amzing experiences that I must share.

Stay tuned. I will be back with my next writeUp soon -> Malaysia – Truely Asia[:D]. This tropical country surely rocks!!